Empowering Kids to Say “No”
Have you ever wondered how to teach young children about consent and boundaries in a way they can understand? Max and Me’s “Just Go with No” campaign, led by his bestie Mr. P is here to help!
The concept is simple but important:
Kids have the right to say “No” when something doesn’t feel right.
It’s okay to trust their instincts and prioritise their comfort and safety.
Key Scenarios and How to Respond
Here are some common situations children might face, along with guidance for caregivers and teachers to help them navigate these moments:
"What if someone asks me to do something I don’t want to, but I’m scared they’ll be mad at me?"
Mr. P says: Just go with no.
Tip for Caregivers: Teach your child that their feelings matter. Reassure them that saying “No” is okay and that they can always ask for help if they feel scared or unsure.
"What if someone asks me to leave someone out of the game because they’re different?"
Mr. P says: Just go with no.
Tip for Caregivers: Focus on kindness and inclusion. Teach children to stand up for others and create a welcoming environment for everyone.
"What if I’m at a sleepover, and someone asks me to do something that feels wrong?"
Mr. P says: Just go with no.
Tip for Caregivers: Create a safe word like “pineapple” that your child can use to signal they need help. Let them know they can call you and pretend you asked, “Do you want pineapple on your pizza?” or simply send an emoji of a pineapple 🍍. Assure them that you'll come to get them, no questions asked. This empowers children to trust their instincts and know they have a way out when they feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
"What if someone asks me to keep a secret that makes me uncomfortable?"
Mr. P says: Just go with no.
Tip for Caregivers: Teach the difference between safe and unsafe secrets. Encourage open communication and remind them it’s okay to speak up.
"I want to give my friend a hug, but they say no. Should I hug them anyway?"
Mr. P says: Just go with no.
Tip for Caregivers: Discuss the importance of consent and respecting boundaries. Teach children that “No” is a complete sentence.
Why This Matters for the 16 Days of Activism
By empowering children to say “No” and trust their instincts, we’re helping them:
Build confidence in setting personal boundaries.
Develop respect for others’ boundaries.
Understand consent from a young age.
These simple lessons contribute to healthier, safer communities where everyone’s rights and feelings are respected.
Join the Movement From 25 November to 10 December, follow Max, Mr. P, and the rest of the Max and Me family as we explore how to create a world where children grow up feeling safe, respected, and empowered. Together, we can make a difference—one “No” at a time!
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